Helping people, groups and organizations
repair and strengthen relational health culture
individually … collectively … systematically

We’re meant to …
connect
listen
speak
care
repair
create
lead
organize
expand
transform
rise

together

in our minds and hearts … our homes …
our workplaces … our communities …
our systems and relational culture

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Relational Culture & Climate
Coaching, Consulting, Facilitation & Training


Healing-centered, trauma-aware, equity-informed, transformative, restorative and systemic approach to our relational field

When one person is hurting or experiencing harm, it impacts the whole group. When one group of people is hurting or experiencing harm, it impacts the wider collective. Whether we feel it, know it, speak it or not. The flow of connection and even creative production gets hindered or severely slowed down. When we don’t pay attention to what is constricted between us, tension may continue arising until abrupt ruptures or losses of important voice(s) and truth(s). Are you ready for to explore mindsets, dialogues and the underbelly of pain to increase our capacities for being in relationship?

Get Ready!

Come and (Re)Learn practices and skills to

  • widen TOLERANCE, UNDERSTANDING, COMPASSION, KINDNESS

  • expand VOICING TRUTHS that honors unique MATTERING and holds collective INCLUSION in our “WE”

  • attune to underlying messages of SENSATIONS, FEELINGS of “right” and “wrong” beyond our thinking-frames

  • increase “CONFLICT-CAPABILITY” with RESTORATIVE and TRANSFORMATIVE steps to repair and lessen the conditions for harm

  • consider and (re)design the SYSTEMS that hold us in these hard conditions the first place

Integrating these skills with deep re-wiring of our brains and nervous systems brings out the truest and most empowered version of ourselves yet to discover … and increase the chances for not only resilient, but transformative relationships in our families, communities, organizations, schools…

Whether you are an individual, the leader of a group or head of a collective (family, classroom, school, organization, community…), we will take a deep dive into your internal, collective and systemic blueprints and walk (back) towards what your deepest values and cultures know is possible.

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Group Relational Culture & Climate Consulting

Courageous Conversation & Feedback Skills
Group Belonging & Inclusion Practices
Climate & Staff Engagement Practices
“Conflict-Capable” Culture Practices
Team Conflict Transformative Repair Facilitation
Trauma-Awareness, Systemic Equity-Lens

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Transformative Leadership & Empowerment Coaching

Executive & Leadership Coaching
Vision, Mission, Purpose, Strategic Plan (re)Creation
Empowering Communication Skills
Power Differentials, Bias and Equity Awareness
Collaborative Team Skills
Continuum of Change & Feedback Culture
Restorative Human Resources Practices

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Healing-Centered Systemic
Group Repair & Design

Systemic Repair Group Process
Systemic Constellations (Hellinger group work)
Blocks, Patterns Clarifying and Removal
Intergenerational & Systemic Trauma Healing
Equity & Power Dynamics Informed

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Restorative Education
Training & Consulting

Whole-School Restorative Practices
Diagnosis, Design, Planning & Integration
Proactive Culture & Climate
Positive Discipline Classroom Management
Restorative Discipline
Transformative Justice & Healing Centered
Teacher Engagement, Wellness & Resourcing
Youth Leadership, Peer Mediation & Mentorship
Family & Community Engagement
Child Development, Trauma and Equity Aware Practices

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Caregiving & Parenting
Coaching

Parenting & Caregiving Support
Attachment Repairs
Positive & Restorative Discipline Approach
Trauma & Brain Development Awareness
Power Differentials & Equity Lens
Empowering and Raising Resilience Skills
Transformative Family System Wellness and Healing

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Relational Health
Coaching

For anyone wanting to heal or strenghten a relationship
Partners, Co-Parents, Family & Friend
Trust & Connection Repair Facilitation
Communication, Empathy Skill-Building
Boundaries and Power Differentials/Equity
Attachment Patterns, Brain States & Trauma Lens
Empowerment and Resource-Building

Cultivating personal, communal and systemic
values and practices
for the growth of relational culture we all yearn for

R.I.S.E. Values

R.

Restorative
Regenerative
Relational
Resilient
Reciprocal

 

I.

Inclusion
Inter-Sectionality
Inter-Dependence
Inside Out
Integration

 
 

S.

System-Thinking
Sustainability
Social Leadership
Secure Attachment
Synergy

 
 
 

E.

Engagement
Equity
Encouragement
Ethics
Emergence

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Move forward with your goals

Schedule a chat today!

Let’s explore what are your personal, leadership
team or organization’s needs are.

And see how my services and approach can support your vision.

Services

Coaching

Explore for yourself or your team what is calling, what is missing, what is underneath core and “minor” struggles. I will accompany and invite us into deeper reflections and realizations, wide complexity holding and support you in finding what would move you towards your vision, leadership, voice, heart, body wellness and sense of spirit.

For individuals or groups.
Virtual until further notice.

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Facilitation

Get an empathic multi-partial skilled brain and heart to facilitate courageous conversations and explorations on topics of team connection, culture, climate, conflict and change. I facilitate relational repairs, restorative dialogues, deep systemic exploration for you and your people.

From two to 30 people or more. Preparatory work may apply.
Virtual until further notice.

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Training

Get customized training for your team. Choose from over 15 years of trainings in Collaborative Communication, Restorative & Transformative Justice Practices, Conflict Transformation, Culture, Climate and Engagement, Team-Building, Authentic Relating, Strategic Group Facilitation, Women and Young Women Journeys, Interpersonal Neurobiology, Early Age & Teenage Brain Development, Systems-Thinking Processes

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Consulting

Take your organization, school, or community to the quality of relating and operating you are envisioning. See what practices and system design can bring a transformation and balance of connection and efficacy/mission you are seeking.
From HR processes, to staff engagement, to feedback and co-creation loop with an equity and trauma-lens, bring your organization to the next level of a happy place to work at.

 

Upcoming events

Join me at upcoming public events.
I can customize events for your group or company.
Email me to inquire,


For School Staff and Educators: see more professional development, coaching and community session events at the Restorative DC project where I consult: www.restorativedc.org

Some of our Clients

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What People Are Saying

“TEN Stars: I have full confidence in any work you might choose to do with Mali. She leads with her heart and embraces with you with her loving Soul. Her Light shines brightly. I find her work to be luminous, profound and life-changing. I cannot recommend her highly enough.”

— Holley Humphrey, CNVC Certified Trainer www.empathymagic.com

“While the stressors around us are at an all time high I am grateful for how well my partner and I are prepared as a couple to handle this all, thanks to your help. We are more aware of our reactions and emotions and have been able to resolve disagreements relatively swiftly and without falling into the extremes.”

— Partner Coaching Participant

Get to the CORE (roots) of what MATTERS. Connect to COEURs (hearts).
See what can EMERGE next.
TOGETHER.