Meet Mali
Mali Guitteny Parke
Hello and Thanks for Visiting!
Whether you are …
an individual seeking personal support
partners or co-parents looking for more flow or repairs in your relationship or family system,
a team, organization leader who seeks personal & professional relational and culture support for yourself or your whole team
an advocate, changemaker and shaker in the world who wants some extra wind in your sail …
I am here for you!
I find great joy and purpose in helping people and communities in co-creating safe, inclusive, equitable, trauma-aware, encouraging relational spaces and culture. I invite you on journeys of discovery, disentanglements of knots, repairs of ruptures, and in the powerful co-creation of the visions you want to live in and offer.
I customize my didactic and experiential approach from large or small group work to individualized sessions for continued deep dives and healing.
I have the chance to work with whole organizations for systemic change, with individual leaders and change makers in the educational, political, human rights and social change fields, as well as unique individuals who seek more wellness, healing, empowerment and flow in relationship with self and others in their family systems.
I invite you to read below what my passion in life-long learning and growth can bring for you.
You can meet me at yearly virtual conferences such as The Resonance Summit and Restorative Justice World.
Lifelong Scholar of Life
Here are some of the stamps I collected on my education passport
Maîtrise in Economics and Management - with honors
Sorbonne University, Paris France - 1995
ICF Certified Professional Coach
International Coaching Federation
Leadership That Works - 2011
Certificate in Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy
Certification in Somatic Attachment Therapy (upcoming)
Embody Lab - 2021-2022
With teachers: Arielle Schwartz, Peter Levine, Stephen Porges, Pat Ogden, Nkem Ndefo, Sherri Mitchell, Deb Dana, Maureen Gallagher, and more.
Positive Discipline Certified Educator In the Classroom - 2014
Positive Discipline Certified Educator for Parents & Caregivers - 2021
Conscious Discipline certificate w/ Becky Bailey - 2010
Restorative Justice Seasoned Practictioner & Trainer
Dominic Barter: Restorative Circles - 2012
International Institute of Restorative Practices (IIRP) Intensive - 2015
Kay Pranis: PeaceMaking Circles Advanced Intensive - 2014
Restorative DC (founding member/trainer): 2015-ongoing
Advanced Systemic Family Constellation Facilitator
Trainings with Master Facilitators:
Sarah Peyton - 2015-2022
Elena Veselago - 2016-2022
Stephen Hausner - 2017
Karl-Heinz Rauscher - 2018
Additional Year-Long Studies of Interest and Impact:
Relational Resonant Language (certification coming soon)
Relational Neuroscience, Communication and Unconscious Contract Work by Sarah Peyton - 2015-2022
Nonviolent Communication
Trainer Candidate for Certification (in choice-full pause)
Center for Nonviolent Communication
Parent Peer Leadership Program - 2009
BayNVC Leadership Program - 2012-2014
Family HEART Camp - 2009-2019 (trainer 2013 on)
Advanced Master Program on the Treatment of Trauma - National Institute for the Clinical Application of Behavioral Medicine 2020*
Three Years+ Therapy Mastermind with Diane Poole Heller 2017-2020
Want to know more?
Weaving The Threads of Life…
At my core, I am a multi-cultural social justice activist who believe in the necessity for acknowledging the realities and impact of systemic inequities and being part of the reparations and remedies for a greater social web that cares for all its beings. I am a continued humble explorer of intersections of my own privileges and on how to transform systems as well as develop personal response-ability and agility in change-making.
A D.C. arrival since the late 90s and a native from France, I acknowledge living on the ancestral stolen land of the Nacotchtank, Anacostan and Piscataway people and in (re)learning relational culture from indigenous wisdom from Turtle Island, Africa and Australia/New Zealand people as well as listening for threads from my own ancestry from the Celtic land and culture of Brittany.
I get the greatest honor of raising two teenagers, my favorite teachers of life. I get the chance to care for a life-long uncurable chronic illness in one of my children, after nearly losing them - as well as balancing chronic illness in my own body.
I am an avid supporter of public education and a founding and serving board member of a DC public charter middle and high school since 2011.
Gratitude to teachers, (tor)mentors and other misfits I have learned from …
(if not named above, adding a few gratitudes and recommendations if you are curious about whom inspired me along the way…)
Attachment / Trauma
Sarah Peyton (author of Your Resonant Self), Stephen Porges, Deb Dana, Ruth Lanius, Peter Levine, Daniel Siegel, Bessel van der Kolk, Gabor Maté, Sue Johnston (EFT), Diane Poole Heller, Esther Perel, Pat Ogden, Sherri Mitchell Weh'na Ha'mu Kwasset, and the amazing conference of Psychotherapy Networker Symposiums (2015-ongoing)
Collective Healing work
The Works that Reconnect by Joanna Macy, Family Constellations (see below), Ancestral Healing with Daniel Foor
Family Constellations / Systemic and Intergenerational Trauma
Sarah Peyton, Elena Veselago, Stephen Hausner, Angwyn St Just, Karl-Heinz Rauscher, Jamy & Peter Faust, and more...
Nonviolent/Collaborative Communication
The late Marshall Rosenberg, Sarah Peyton (worth repeating!), Robert Gonzales, Jane Connor, the late Inbal Kashtan, Ingrid Bauer, Roxy Manning, Lynd Morris, Robin O’Brien, Ann Malabre, Shannon Casey, Angela Watrous and many others …
Restorative Practices / Restorative Justice
Dominic Barter, Kay Pranis, Sujatha Baliga, Sonya Shah, Mama Ivy Hylton and Dr. Saleem from DC, Dr. Carmen White and Dr. Lennie Smith, Eric Gardner, Tarek Maassarani, Joe Brummer, Heart Phoenix, Pam Orbach, Shawnda Chapman and more …
Education / Parenting
Dan Siegel (Parenting the Whole Child, From Inside Out, Brainstorm…, father of Interpersonal Neurobiology IPNB), Becky Bailey (Conscious Discipline), Jane Nelsen (Positive Discipline)
Group Facilitation
Convergent Facilitation by Miki Kashtan, Emergent Strategy by Adrienne Maree Brown, Liberating Structures by Henri Lipmanowicz and Keith McCandless